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Speak to your Child Speak to your child
It is as important to speak to your child about drugs and alcohol as it is about sex.
Why do kids take drugs?
  • Stress management: to relieve stress, keep calm, take away loneliness.
  • To forget or solve problems: financial, sexual, social.
  • Enjoyment, excitement and fun: to feel good, to be happy, and when bored, to get energy.
  • Peer pressure: to be accepted, to be popular, to fit in, to impress friends.
  • Self–imaging: taking drugs is not only a means of conveying an image to others, it is a way of conveying an image to yourself.
  • Risk taking and rebellion: the potential negative consequences of taking drugs, coupled with the fact that they are illegal, can make drugs a more enticing prospect (forbidden fruit).
  • Out of curiosity: to experiment.
  • Body concept: to become thin, to build muscle.
  • Availability: there are drugs in India schools, and in society generally, and they are often affordable to students.
  • Addiction: to avoid withdrawal symptoms once dependent.
Drugs are in Indian schools: it is not a question of IF your child will be in contact with drugs, but WHEN. And when they are, will they be ready?
FALSE…
  • If my child took drugs, I would know it.
THE TRUTH IS…
  • Many cheap drugs are on the market today. Young people do not need to steal or ask their parents for large amounts of money to buy them. The harmful effects of drugs gradually become visible after prolonged use. The short–term effects of most drugs are often hidden and confused with a sense of sleeplessness or irritability. Most of the time, parents are the last to know about their child’s drug problem.
What to do if you think your child is taking drugs?
First:
  • Try not to panic.
Second:
  • Don’t confront your child if he or she still seems under the influence. Wait until the effects wear off.
Stay calm and discuss the situation without fighting. Listen to what your child is saying without being judgmental. If what they are saying concerns you, express this honestly and without anger or tears.

Explain why you are worried and what your concerns are and tell them how you feel. Negotiate guidelines and let your child be part of the process, by being part of these they are more likely to stick to them.

Be firm, consistent and caring, but show that using drugs is an unacceptable practice that you disapprove.

DOs and DON’Ts
  • Do support your child, but don’t enable them to carry on with unacceptable behaviour. This is vital, no matter what the circumstance.
  • Don’t do it alone – understand that if you’re your child is addicted, he or she may need more help than you are able to give. Parents often make this mistake. Addiction is a disorder. You would not try to treat a medical disorder yourself.
  • Remember to look after yourself and other family members – they will need support too.
  • Do distinguish between the child and the drugs – you love them and not the drug or the behaviour it causes.
  • Do let your child take responsibility for his or her own actions.
  • Don’t blame yourself and don’t tell lies for your child to school, family and friends.
  • Don’t either directly or indirectly, fund their drug habit by giving them money, paying their bills, etc.
  • Don’t expect the situation to go away if you ignore it.
  • Don’t believe everything you are told.
  • And Do contact a professional to help you.

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