A Prayer for All Seasons
God, grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, courage to change the things we can, and the wisdom to know the difference..

The power of this prayer is overwhelming in that its simple beauty parallels the A.A. Fellowship. There are times when I bet stuck while reciting it, but if I examine the section which is troubling me, I find the answer to my problem. The first time this happened I was scared, but now I use it as a valuable tool. By accepting life as it is, I gain serenity. By taking action, I gain courage and I thank God for the ability to distinguish between those situations I can work on, and those I must turn over. All that I have now is a gift from God: my life, my usefulness, my contentment, and this program. The serenity enable me to continue walking forward.

Alcoholics Anonymous is the easier, softer way.