Doing Anything to Help
Offer him (the alcoholic) friendship and fellowship. Tell him that if he wants to get well you will do anything to help.

I remember how attracted I was to the two men from A.A. who Twelfth–Stepped me. They said I could have what they had, with no conditions attached, that all I had to do was make my own decision to join them on the pathway to recovery. When I start convincing a newcomer to do things my way, I forget how helpful those two men were to me in their open–minded generosity.